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Confessions of a Control Whore

Confessions of a Control Whore

by Rick’s toy
So there isn’t any miscommunication, let it be said from the beginning of this journey into the darker recesses of my mind, I’m not a pain slut. I don’t get wet at the thought of being beaten. If the truth is told, that thought makes me cringe. I don’t like to hurt. [...]

Anger and BDSM: Part Two - A submissive dealing with a Dominant’s Anger

by Screamer
(Disclaimer: D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are in a dangerous situation, one [...]

Anger and BDSM: Part One - Dealing with your anger as a submissive

by Screamer
(Disclaimer: A rare thing for me. D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are [...]

A Submissive’s Ethics

A Submissive’s Ethics

“I’m in charge!”
This is a realization that some submissives have from the beginning and that hits others like a thunderbolt.
The Dominant has Control, but the submissive chooses to be under it. The submissive chooses to kneel, and sets limits within which the Dominant controls what happens. In time, trust grows and the scope of that [...]

A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel

A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel

by Freya
Although I do work outside of the home I still believe in the logic above. I work because Master insists I do. Not for the money, although it does help as raising children is not cheap, but for what he calls Mental Conditioning. While I serve Master in every way, he does not want [...]

24/7 Slavery

24/7 Slavery

by Ricks toy
24/7. All day, every day. Is it possible to live any lifestyle to that degree? More to the point, is it possible to live *this* lifestyle that i’ve chosen for myself on a 24/7 basis?
i suppose before i can answer that, i ought to give you a little background information about myself and [...]

10 Commandments for Newbies

10 Commandments for Newbies

by LadyMary03
I. THOU SHALT BE RELENTLESS IN YOUR SEARCH OF KNOWLEDGE …for there are many who are willing and eager to guide and assist you in your search
II. THOU SHALT NOT BE HAUGHTY OF MIND …for we all are still learning and growing. There is no shame in not knowing a right word or how [...]

Week of March 17th

How much experience do you have in BDSM or the Lifestyle? When are you not considered a newbie anymore?
Will your owner influence or affect your vote this year, or is ‘voting your conscience’ something you are encouraged to do?
“I’ve come to believe that each of us has a personal calling that’s as unique as a [...]

Understanding…Feminine Hygiene

 by raven
Vaginal wetness and odor are normal and all women have to contend with it. My goal with this essay is to educate you on what the most common causes are. Give you some guidelines on how to deal with it safely. Know when you need to seek medical advice. I will touch on some [...]

Ten Ways to use Epsom Salts

Relaxing and Sedative Bath: Soak in warm water and 2 cups of Epsom Salt.
Face Cleaner: To clean your face at night, mix a half-teaspoon of Epsom Salt with your regular cleansing cream. Just massage into skin and rinse with cold water.
Homemade Skin Mask: Apply the mask to damp skin. For normal to oily skin, mix [...]