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Submissive Journal Prompts for times when you need some help formulating your thoughts. Please feel free to use these to blog about when you are at a loss for words, you can cross post these to any site or list you feel can use them. I’d like it if you put a link back to where you got them from so that other people can find them. Thank you!

Week of June 30th

How tolerant are you of others who live in a lifestyle that would not suit you and who live in such a way it does not affect you? Do you consider yourself open minded? How do you react when others judge your lifestyle as fantasy?
Are you a quiet obedient submissive or is there an element [...]

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Week of June 23rd

Are you in a Long Distance Relationship? How do you keep the feeling of submission alive over the miles?
How do you feel about public displays of affection? discipline? play?
What has been your greatest personal victory in your life? What has been your greatest disappointment in your life?
Does your owner require you to be mindful or [...]

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Week of June 16th

What was the moment where you knew for the first time… you were a slave/enslaved?
How do you define the terms SSC and RACK? Which do you ascribe to? Why or why not?
“I am not discouraged because every wrong attempt discarded is a step forward.” - Thomas Edison
Have you been taught a formal service ritual? Examples [...]

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Week of June 2nd

Do you feel there is a learning curve in slavery? Do you feel you have to unlearn certain things that society has taught you?
“There’s only one thing greater than my fear- that is my love. My love will always conquer my fear- but it can’t do it immediately. It needs the full force of my [...]

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Week of May 26th

Where did you get the name you use online or in the scene? What is its meaning?
When are you most aware of being owned/submissive?
What seven words would you use to describe yourself?
When you are near the end of your life, reflecting back over the years you have lived, the choices that you have made.. what [...]

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Week of May 19th

Write a website review of your favorite BDSM resource. Be as concise as possible.
Do you beg? How do you feel when you do?
“I am your servant. I shall not be free. You will protect me; you will keep me safe; you will guard me. You will keep me sound; you will protect me from every [...]

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Week of May 12th

How does illness, depression or stress affect your service? How do you handle it’s effects?
Have you felt yourself pushed to an emotional edge? How would you describe that moment?
“Only a life lived in the service to others is worth living.”-Albert Einstein
Are you a spontaneous person? Do you prefer to have everything planned in advance?
How has [...]

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Week of May 5th

If you are masochist, how do you process pain? Are you the silent type? Screamer? Crier? Is this what is expected of you? How does your partner prefer you to process pain?
What does it mean to you to be “someone’s”?
“If I have been of service, if I have glimpsed more of the nature and essence [...]

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Week of April 14th

What is your motivation in your service?
“All my soul follows you, love encircles you and I live in being yours.” -Robert Browning
Tell a story about some of your favorite marks.
What are you owners requirement for your dress (or undress)?
Can you submit when trust has been broken? Can trust ever be rebuilt?

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Week of April 7th

Ideally, what are you seeking in a relationship? Has that changed much as you explore your nature, and if so, how?
What are your current wants and needs in your relationship? Have any changed much since you first started exploring?
Why do you define yourself as submissive? Try to steer away from ‘I like to serve’ and [...]

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