Sensual Service » Journal Prompts

Week of June 30th

admin — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 21:00:43 +0000

How tolerant are you of others who live in a lifestyle that would not suit you and who live in such a way it does not affect you? Do you consider yourself open minded? How do you react when others judge your lifestyle as fantasy?
Are you a quiet obedient submissive or is there an element of playful brattiness in your dynamic? How does your owner encourage or enhance who you are?
Why do you write a journal? Do you find it is a positive thing for you, and if so, in what ways? Is it a public journal? Do you ever find yourself censoring your writings for whoever else might read them?
“I am not influenced by the expectation of promotion or pecuniary reward. I wish to be useful….” -Nathan Hale

admin — Sun, 22 Jun 2008 21:00:37 +0000

Are you in a Long Distance Relationship? How do you keep the feeling of submission alive over the miles?
How do you feel about public displays of affection? discipline? play?
What has been your greatest personal victory in your life? What has been your greatest disappointment in your life?
Does your owner require you to be mindful or focused in your service? How do you focus yourself?
Do you make BDSM toys? What are your favorites thus far?

admin — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 04:00:24 +0000

What was the moment where you knew for the first time… you were a slave/enslaved?
How do you define the terms SSC and RACK? Which do you ascribe to? Why or why not?
“I am not discouraged because every wrong attempt discarded is a step forward.” - Thomas Edison
Have you been taught a formal service ritual? Examples include Japanese Tea Ceremony, English Tea Service, High formal Butler, etc.
Do you ever have submissive immersion where you have times that your role is more pronounced and you do things very structured and organized?

admin — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 21:27:44 +0000

Do you feel there is a learning curve in slavery? Do you feel you have to unlearn certain things that society has taught you?
“There’s only one thing greater than my fear- that is my love. My love will always conquer my fear- but it can’t do it immediately. It needs the full force of my love to do it and it takes days for that to emerge out of its dark hiding places.” -John Middleton Murry
What do you consider ’slutty’ behavior? Are you encouraged to act slutty? How does slutty behavior (either by yourself or others) make you feel?
Have you attended a munch group? What were your impressions? Have you been back? Why or why not?
How does your body image impact your sexual identity?

admin — Sun, 25 May 2008 17:00:53 +0000

Where did you get the name you use online or in the scene? What is its meaning?
When are you most aware of being owned/submissive?
What seven words would you use to describe yourself?
When you are near the end of your life, reflecting back over the years you have lived, the choices that you have made.. what would you like to remember?
Do you enjoy deprivation of certain things you once took for granted?
If it occurs within your dynamic:
- Do you find it to be annoying/frustrating?
- Do you find that it is just one way amongst many to remind you of your status?

admin — Sun, 18 May 2008 17:00:11 +0000

Write a website review of your favorite BDSM resource. Be as concise as possible.
Do you beg? How do you feel when you do?
“I am your servant. I shall not be free. You will protect me; you will keep me safe; you will guard me. You will keep me sound; you will protect me from every demon.” Ancient Egyptian woman’s slave contract
Is it important to you to have friends who are also in similar style relationships? Why or why not?
Are you allowed to masturbate? Do you have any rules governing self pleasure?

admin — Sun, 11 May 2008 17:00:25 +0000

How does illness, depression or stress affect your service? How do you handle it’s effects?
Have you felt yourself pushed to an emotional edge? How would you describe that moment?
“Only a life lived in the service to others is worth living.”-Albert Einstein
Are you a spontaneous person? Do you prefer to have everything planned in advance?
How has being owned altered your body image? Your sexuality?

admin — Mon, 05 May 2008 17:00:45 +0000

If you are masochist, how do you process pain? Are you the silent type? Screamer? Crier? Is this what is expected of you? How does your partner prefer you to process pain?
What does it mean to you to be “someone’s”?
“If I have been of service, if I have glimpsed more of the nature and essence of ultimate good, if I am inspired to reach wider horizons of thought and action, if I am at peace with myself, it has been a successful day.” - Alex Noble
How would you define your service? Devotional, positional, transactional service?
Do you ever find it difficult to embrace your nature in today’s society? How do you balance it out?

admin — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 17:00:06 +0000

What is your motivation in your service?
“All my soul follows you, love encircles you and I live in being yours.” -Robert Browning
Tell a story about some of your favorite marks.
What are you owners requirement for your dress (or undress)?
Can you submit when trust has been broken? Can trust ever be rebuilt?

admin — Sun, 06 Apr 2008 17:00:28 +0000

Ideally, what are you seeking in a relationship? Has that changed much as you explore your nature, and if so, how?
What are your current wants and needs in your relationship? Have any changed much since you first started exploring?
Why do you define yourself as submissive? Try to steer away from ‘I like to serve’ and see what other things you have to offer.
“I slept and dreamt that life was joy. I awoke and saw that life was service. I acted and behold, service was joy.” -Rabindranath Tagore
How do you see your submission maturing and changing in a year, 5 years, 10 years?