Sensual Service

What It Is That We Do, BDSM Play and everything within play activities. No holds barred here. Essays shared from the submissive point of view to help you learn and explore.

by Marianne Apostolides
Bind my ankles with your white cotton rope so I cannot walk. Bind my wrists so I cannot push you away. Place me on the bed and wrap your rope tighter around my skin so it grips my flesh. Now I know that struggle is useless, that I must lie here and submit [...]

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by Toya
When Master and I were still doing the long distance thing, one of the most important things I had to learn to cope with was sub drop. Master would come up for a weekend, we would have two or three days full of play and then he would leave. The next day was like [...]

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Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive. This type of speech ranges from simple straight forward commands to language of affirmation and frequently language of [...]

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by Justin Medlin
I am sure that most everyone reading this knows what S.S.C. stands for……Safe, Sane and Consensual. Its catchy, easy to remember and it has been a worthwhile marketing slogan for the BDSM lifestyle no matter what your level of involvement. Over time though it has become less useful to the people actually [...]

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by Rick’s fucktoy
“Consensual rape.” Quite an oxymoron, I suppose. Rape, by definition, is sexual intercourse in which one party is unwilling and unwanting of the attention and act. A consensual act is something quite contrary to that initial concept of rape. A consensual act is one in which all parties are in agreement as to [...]

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by Norische
Safe words, when you are new to the BDSM lifestyle you hear a lot of new terms, one term that always seems to cause a little confusion is the term “Safe word”.
A safe word is any word or phrase that is agreed upon by both the Dominant and the sub/slave as being an acceptable [...]

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by Gary Switch
During a discussion of SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) on the TES-Friends list, I proposed RACK (Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink) as an alternative. Here’s my motivation:
Nothing’s perfectly safe. Crossing the street isn’t perfectly safe. Remember that it’s technically called “safer sex,” not “safe sex.” If we want to limit BDSM to what’s safe, we [...]

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POSITION & POSTURE
One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of swatting is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.
Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work [...]

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Fetish
The first thing that must be discussed is what exactly is a fetish. In psychiatry a fetish is an object, action or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification, it is also thought that said fixation may be to the extent in which it can impede on the “normal” [...]

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A friend recently told me about a fly swatter he had that’s “Texas size.” Cool! I have a dozen or so little girl hair clips I found that are iridescent butterflies and dragonflies and bumblebees. They aren’t big enough for nipples but bet they’d be real annoying on genitals. Just one teensy little snap.
Did you [...]

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