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Close, sensual contact with our partners enhance our relationships, brings out our primal urges and strengthens bonds. Learn tips on how to keep the flame alive and share your sexual energy with the rest of us.

The Selective Slut

The Selective Slut

by Kayla Kuffs
The first time I was called a slut in a BDSM context I was extremely insulted. How dare they? How rude! But I was too new to this lifestyle to do anything more than think those words. I did however, notice the term slut tossed around like a beach ball and I had [...]

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The Clitoris: A how to of sorts

The Clitoris: A how to of sorts

I don’t know if this is the same for every woman, so bear with me. A random sampling of my girlfriends made up this argument in the form of Public Service Announcement; your results may vary with other women.
We’ve all heard the bit of truism that says lovers tend to touch each other’s genitals (at [...]

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Seven Steps to Easy Fisting

Seven Steps to Easy Fisting

Yes, you can get your whole hand inside your partner’s pussy. For women who are into massive penetration, nothing is a bigger turn-on. No experience is necessary for either of you but if your gal pal is a little roomy or has given birth in the past, you’ll have an easier time. Otherwise, you may [...]

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On Being a Slut

On Being a Slut

by kaylee
‘Slut’ is a phrase that often has different connotations, depending on how we view ourselves, how the term is used, and how we as individuals define what a ’slut’ is. My personal definition is that the term ’slut’ means a woman who embraces her sexuality, and holds little inhibitions in that manner.
I don’t necessary [...]

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Kegels

Kegels

by Mistress Steele
Many forms of BDSM scening involve or may involve activity to the pelvis, vagina and anus. Since a great number of women entering the lifestyle have had children it is not uncommon for many women to have weakened pelvic muscles. The loss of muscular definition or control in the pelvis or anus may [...]

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Giving Erotic Massage

Giving Erotic Massage

Relaxing Your Partner’s Body

Start by connecting with your partner. There may be specific ways you and your partner prefer to do this. If not, try kind words, soft gazing into each other’s eyes, synchronized breathing, and/or caressing each others’ faces or hands.
When both of you are ready, have your partner lie face down, naked, on [...]

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Giving a Grade A Blowjob

Giving a Grade A Blowjob

by angel
Giving a hummer is an art. Everyone who has the great luck to take a cock lovingly into their mouth should know what they are doing. Here are a few tricks i use.
1) Enthusiasm. You should look at your man’s cock like it is a delicious treat you cannot wait to devour. Notice the [...]

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Frugal Romance 101

Frugal Romance 101

Holidays and special anniversaries are wonderful reminders for romance. However, they are also the most predictable. A small but meaningful gesture on an “ordinary day” often has more impact than a larger investment on an “expected day.”
One way to encourage spontaneous romance is with a Friendship Ball/Box. Find a nice small hollow ball or box. [...]

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Crash Course in Tantric Sex

Crash Course in Tantric Sex

by Dzy
The practice of tantric sex begins with delayed gratification and really has to do with focus. Not a myopic focus on your beloved’s genitals, but a really concerted effort to arouse, prolong arousal while enjoying your lover’s whole persona, and honing the skills of total gratification; both male and female. Some misguided souls think [...]

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Anal Advice

Anal Advice

by angel
Here are some tips to make anal play and anal sex more enjoyable for you.
Step One: Enemas… Anytime i know in advance that Master is going to want to have anal sex (like when i have my period) i give myself an enema. Not only does this make me feel cleaner, it makes the [...]

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