Looking Out for Number One
by Kayla
I’ve been around the BDSM community for a number of years and have had my fair share of meeting new people for potential play/relationship consideration. Over time I’ve put together my own personal rituals for meeting new people, most of whom I’ve met via the Internet. As this topic comes up often on various [...]
Just Wait Till Your Father Gets Home: Telling Your Family
by Norische
“So what are you, some kind of Satanist, or what?” This was one of the first things my sister said when she walked into my house.
It had been almost a year since I had seen my sister, she doesn’t live that far away but she has always been a little on the judgmental side [...]
I am a Submissive Woman
by Pure Devl
I am a submissive woman look through my eyes and see who I really am. I am strong, independent, bright,witty, beautiful and a lot like you. Can you see it? Do you understand it? Come with me and ill show you the things I am and the things I need. I am sometimes [...]
Feminisim & Submission
by Toya
Writing an article on submission and feminism was a huge challenge to me. Until a few years ago I had never really come into contact with the feminist movement; for the most part the feminist movement passed me by. Not because I wasn’t interested in what they were trying to achieve and indeed did [...]
Confessions of a Control Whore
by Rick’s toy
So there isn’t any miscommunication, let it be said from the beginning of this journey into the darker recesses of my mind, I’m not a pain slut. I don’t get wet at the thought of being beaten. If the truth is told, that thought makes me cringe. I don’t like to hurt. [...]
Anger and BDSM: Part Two - A submissive dealing with a Dominant’s Anger
by Screamer
(Disclaimer: D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are in a dangerous situation, one [...]
Anger and BDSM: Part One - Dealing with your anger as a submissive
by Screamer
(Disclaimer: A rare thing for me. D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are [...]
A Submissive’s Ethics
“I’m in charge!”
This is a realization that some submissives have from the beginning and that hits others like a thunderbolt.
The Dominant has Control, but the submissive chooses to be under it. The submissive chooses to kneel, and sets limits within which the Dominant controls what happens. In time, trust grows and the scope of that [...]
A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel
by Freya
Although I do work outside of the home I still believe in the logic above. I work because Master insists I do. Not for the money, although it does help as raising children is not cheap, but for what he calls Mental Conditioning. While I serve Master in every way, he does not want [...]
24/7 Slavery
by Ricks toy
24/7. All day, every day. Is it possible to live any lifestyle to that degree? More to the point, is it possible to live *this* lifestyle that i’ve chosen for myself on a 24/7 basis?
i suppose before i can answer that, i ought to give you a little background information about myself and [...]
