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Mental and emotional state of the submissive is paramount. Keep your mind and soul happy and healthy. These articles will help you maintain your submissive self on the inside.

I am a Submissive Woman

I am a Submissive Woman

by Pure Devl
I am a submissive woman look through my eyes and see who I really am. I am strong, independent, bright,witty, beautiful and a lot like you. Can you see it? Do you understand it? Come with me and ill show you the things I am and the things I need. I am sometimes [...]

Feminisim & Submission

Feminisim & Submission

by Toya
Writing an article on submission and feminism was a huge challenge to me. Until a few years ago I had never really come into contact with the feminist movement; for the most part the feminist movement passed me by. Not because I wasn’t interested in what they were trying to achieve and indeed did [...]

Confessions of a Control Whore

Confessions of a Control Whore

by Rick’s toy
So there isn’t any miscommunication, let it be said from the beginning of this journey into the darker recesses of my mind, I’m not a pain slut. I don’t get wet at the thought of being beaten. If the truth is told, that thought makes me cringe. I don’t like to hurt. [...]

Anger and BDSM: Part Two - A submissive dealing with a Dominant’s Anger

by Screamer
(Disclaimer: D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are in a dangerous situation, one [...]

Anger and BDSM: Part One - Dealing with your anger as a submissive

by Screamer
(Disclaimer: A rare thing for me. D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are [...]

A Submissive’s Ethics

A Submissive’s Ethics

“I’m in charge!”
This is a realization that some submissives have from the beginning and that hits others like a thunderbolt.
The Dominant has Control, but the submissive chooses to be under it. The submissive chooses to kneel, and sets limits within which the Dominant controls what happens. In time, trust grows and the scope of that [...]

A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel

A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel

by Freya
Although I do work outside of the home I still believe in the logic above. I work because Master insists I do. Not for the money, although it does help as raising children is not cheap, but for what he calls Mental Conditioning. While I serve Master in every way, he does not want [...]

24/7 Slavery

24/7 Slavery

by Ricks toy
24/7. All day, every day. Is it possible to live any lifestyle to that degree? More to the point, is it possible to live *this* lifestyle that i’ve chosen for myself on a 24/7 basis?
i suppose before i can answer that, i ought to give you a little background information about myself and [...]

10 Commandments for Newbies

10 Commandments for Newbies

by LadyMary03
I. THOU SHALT BE RELENTLESS IN YOUR SEARCH OF KNOWLEDGE …for there are many who are willing and eager to guide and assist you in your search
II. THOU SHALT NOT BE HAUGHTY OF MIND …for we all are still learning and growing. There is no shame in not knowing a right word or how [...]

What to Expect at a Munch

What to Expect at a Munch

by Mistress Constance
If you’ve never been to a munch before, the prospect can be very intimidating. What should you expect, how should you behave, how should you dress, what might happen, what might not? When you add that to a lifestyle that can seem terribly intimidating on its own, the terror mounts. I thought it [...]