Sensual Service

How does illness, depression or stress affect your service? How do you handle it’s effects?
Have you felt yourself pushed to an emotional edge? How would you describe that moment?
“Only a life lived in the service to others is worth living.”-Albert Einstein
Are you a spontaneous person? Do you prefer to have everything planned in advance?
How has [...]

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If you are masochist, how do you process pain? Are you the silent type? Screamer? Crier? Is this what is expected of you? How does your partner prefer you to process pain?
What does it mean to you to be “someone’s”?
“If I have been of service, if I have glimpsed more of the nature and essence [...]

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What is your motivation in your service?
“All my soul follows you, love encircles you and I live in being yours.” -Robert Browning
Tell a story about some of your favorite marks.
What are you owners requirement for your dress (or undress)?
Can you submit when trust has been broken? Can trust ever be rebuilt?

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Ideally, what are you seeking in a relationship? Has that changed much as you explore your nature, and if so, how?
What are your current wants and needs in your relationship? Have any changed much since you first started exploring?
Why do you define yourself as submissive? Try to steer away from ‘I like to serve’ and [...]

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What is your morning routine like? Are there rituals established with your owner?
Are you voice trained? Does your owner have a preference on how you communicate to him/her?
“When I’m trusting and being myself as fully as possible, everything in my life reflects this by falling into place easily, often miraculously.” -Shakti Gawain — Have you [...]

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Does your owner request, allow or demand that you post pictures of yourself on your journal? How does this make you feel?
How have your views changed since you first started exploring? Are you surprised by some of the changes?
Do your beliefs closely match your owner’s? In areas where they do not, can the differences cause [...]

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How much experience do you have in BDSM or the Lifestyle? When are you not considered a newbie anymore?
Will your owner influence or affect your vote this year, or is ‘voting your conscience’ something you are encouraged to do?
“I’ve come to believe that each of us has a personal calling that’s as unique as a [...]

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“Stars, hide your fires; Let not light see my black and deep desires” -Shakespeare, MacBeth
“When you think night and day and every moment only of pleasing me, things will be very easy for you.” -Anne Rice, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty
“Without discipline, there’s no life at all.” -Katharine Hepburn
“The heart is the temple wherein all [...]

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“To have such clarity you must lead a disciplined life. Only then will you know that any path is only a path, and there is no affront, to oneself or to others, in dropping it if that is what your heart tells you to do. But your decision to keep on the path or [...]

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From Kindlings: Is full disclosure expected in your relationship? How do you find it easiest to share the aspects of yourself that you normally would keep deep down inside? Do you ever find yourself wanting to censor yourself, and how do you move past that urge?
“Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take [...]

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