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Ten Tips For The Novice, Single, Heterosexual Submissive Woman

by Jay Wiseman
Let me guess. You’re a woman, you’re heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he [...]

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Mentorship

by Mistress Constance
One of the words we hear a lot these days is “mentor.” People talk about the need for mentors in our community. Novices are looking for mentors. More experienced people call themselves mentors. There seems to be a general consensus that everyone needs them and everyone who can be one should be a [...]

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The Clitoris: A how to of sorts

The Clitoris: A how to of sorts

I don’t know if this is the same for every woman, so bear with me. A random sampling of my girlfriends made up this argument in the form of Public Service Announcement; your results may vary with other women.
We’ve all heard the bit of truism that says lovers tend to touch each other’s genitals (at [...]

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Seven Steps to Easy Fisting

Seven Steps to Easy Fisting

Yes, you can get your whole hand inside your partner’s pussy. For women who are into massive penetration, nothing is a bigger turn-on. No experience is necessary for either of you but if your gal pal is a little roomy or has given birth in the past, you’ll have an easier time. Otherwise, you may [...]

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Kegels

Kegels

by Mistress Steele
Many forms of BDSM scening involve or may involve activity to the pelvis, vagina and anus. Since a great number of women entering the lifestyle have had children it is not uncommon for many women to have weakened pelvic muscles. The loss of muscular definition or control in the pelvis or anus may [...]

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Anal Advice

Anal Advice

by angel
Here are some tips to make anal play and anal sex more enjoyable for you.
Step One: Enemas… Anytime i know in advance that Master is going to want to have anal sex (like when i have my period) i give myself an enema. Not only does this make me feel cleaner, it makes the [...]

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