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Ten Tips For The Novice, Single, Heterosexual Submissive Woman
by Jay Wiseman
Let me guess. You’re a woman, you’re heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he [...]
Serve, Service, Servitude?
by Ms Lyn
What do you mean when you offer to serve?
What do you mean when you offer to be of service?
What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?
Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some [...]
Origin of RACK: RACK vs. SSC
by Gary Switch
During a discussion of SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) on the TES-Friends list, I proposed RACK (Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink) as an alternative. Here’s my motivation:
Nothing’s perfectly safe. Crossing the street isn’t perfectly safe. Remember that it’s technically called “safer sex,” not “safe sex.” If we want to limit BDSM to what’s safe, we [...]
