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Just Wait Till Your Father Gets Home: Telling Your Family

by Norische
“So what are you, some kind of Satanist, or what?” This was one of the first things my sister said when she walked into my house.
It had been almost a year since I had seen my sister, she doesn’t live that far away but she has always been a little on the judgmental side [...]

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Ceremony From The Heart: The Collaring Ceremony

Ceremony From The Heart: The Collaring Ceremony

by Norische
There comes a time in the life of all, that they feel incomplete, that there is something missing in their lives. Then someone comes into their world and fills the void, someone that has felt the same emptiness, someone that understands. Today is just such a day, today souls will combine and lives will [...]

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The Selective Slut

The Selective Slut

by Kayla Kuffs
The first time I was called a slut in a BDSM context I was extremely insulted. How dare they? How rude! But I was too new to this lifestyle to do anything more than think those words. I did however, notice the term slut tossed around like a beach ball and I had [...]

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What to Expect at a Munch

What to Expect at a Munch

by Mistress Constance
If you’ve never been to a munch before, the prospect can be very intimidating. What should you expect, how should you behave, how should you dress, what might happen, what might not? When you add that to a lifestyle that can seem terribly intimidating on its own, the terror mounts. I thought it [...]

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Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol

by Norische
Safe words, when you are new to the BDSM lifestyle you hear a lot of new terms, one term that always seems to cause a little confusion is the term “Safe word”.
A safe word is any word or phrase that is agreed upon by both the Dominant and the sub/slave as being an acceptable [...]

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