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The Psychology of Slavery: Understanding Consensual Slavery

by Norische
Aeschylus – Destiny waits alike for the free man as well as for him
enslaved by another’s might.
Throughout time millions of individuals have fought and died to free their brother, friend, and child from the oppressions of slavery. Every nation, every country, every culture has been touched by the strong-arm of involuntary slavery; nowhere in [...]

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Ten Tips For The Novice, Single, Heterosexual Submissive Woman

by Jay Wiseman
Let me guess. You’re a woman, you’re heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he [...]

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Submission by Choice: How to Work Your Way Back to Yourself

by luna[KM]
Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I am strong willed, commanding and independent. I have a dominant personality. Nature, society and the way I was [...]

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So You Want To Be A Slave: The Realities

by mira_hunter
I decided to write this article because I have seen so many submissives come into the lifestyle expecting everything to be dream-like and perfect. I don’t wish to ruin anyone’s dreams, or turn them from the activity, but what I wish to do is to explain how things really are. Being a slave can [...]

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Mentorship

by Mistress Constance
One of the words we hear a lot these days is “mentor.” People talk about the need for mentors in our community. Novices are looking for mentors. More experienced people call themselves mentors. There seems to be a general consensus that everyone needs them and everyone who can be one should be a [...]

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The Importance of Rules

The Importance of Rules

by luna
Rules, instructions and assignments are things that are given to me by my Dominant for very important reasons. To follow them should bring me the pride and happiness that I feel for him, and remind me that he cares for me. Rules are in place to keep me in line, place my heart and [...]

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What to Expect at a Munch

What to Expect at a Munch

by Mistress Constance
If you’ve never been to a munch before, the prospect can be very intimidating. What should you expect, how should you behave, how should you dress, what might happen, what might not? When you add that to a lifestyle that can seem terribly intimidating on its own, the terror mounts. I thought it [...]

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