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Anger and BDSM: Part One - Dealing with your anger as a submissive

by Screamer
(Disclaimer: A rare thing for me. D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are [...]

Introduction to Spanking

Introduction to Spanking

POSITION & POSTURE
One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of swatting is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.
Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work [...]