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Power Exchange - Strong Women (in Charge/Control) Giving Power

Power Exchange - Strong Women (in Charge/Control) Giving Power

by Gev
The topic (or dichotomy) of a Powerful Woman engaging in a power exchange, has been of great interest to me. Why would a woman, who is normally in control of their life, who is assertive, and who is successful, want to give over the ‘reins’ or choices to another in a power exchange?
I’ve come [...]

The Psychology of Slavery: Understanding Consensual Slavery

by Norische
Aeschylus – Destiny waits alike for the free man as well as for him
enslaved by another’s might.
Throughout time millions of individuals have fought and died to free their brother, friend, and child from the oppressions of slavery. Every nation, every country, every culture has been touched by the strong-arm of involuntary slavery; nowhere in [...]

Submission by Choice: How to Work Your Way Back to Yourself

by luna[KM]
Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I am strong willed, commanding and independent. I have a dominant personality. Nature, society and the way I was [...]

Confessions of a Control Whore

Confessions of a Control Whore

by Rick’s toy
So there isn’t any miscommunication, let it be said from the beginning of this journey into the darker recesses of my mind, I’m not a pain slut. I don’t get wet at the thought of being beaten. If the truth is told, that thought makes me cringe. I don’t like to hurt. [...]