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The Power of Submission

by rarejewel
To understand the power of submission, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed.
True submission is something that comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, it goes [...]

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Ten Tips For The Novice, Single, Heterosexual Submissive Woman

by Jay Wiseman
Let me guess. You’re a woman, you’re heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he [...]

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Submissive Creed

1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Top and I from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
2. I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will [...]

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Rediscovering and Modernizing The Geisha : New Submissive Perspectives In Contemporary BDSM

by Pantheris
The geisha is a potential site for exploration and experimentation in the world of BDSM today. As the world undergoes a shrinkage, globalization allows cultural crossovers; this not only pervades into the economic world, it also diversifies sensual experience. Currently, the majority of “roles” that submissives play are of Western conception and development. Let [...]

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On Being Worthless

by Rick’s fucktoy
it’s a concept that i can understand so clearly in my head, yet i have been struggling to find the words that will explain it to someone who might read my thoughts and want to understand my perception.
hearing a term like “worthless” can often be an emotional experience. it has an extremely negative [...]

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A Submissive’s Ethics

A Submissive’s Ethics

“I’m in charge!”
This is a realization that some submissives have from the beginning and that hits others like a thunderbolt.
The Dominant has Control, but the submissive chooses to be under it. The submissive chooses to kneel, and sets limits within which the Dominant controls what happens. In time, trust grows and the scope of that [...]

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A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel

A submissive woman is actually a treasured jewel

by Freya
Although I do work outside of the home I still believe in the logic above. I work because Master insists I do. Not for the money, although it does help as raising children is not cheap, but for what he calls Mental Conditioning. While I serve Master in every way, he does not want [...]

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10 Commandments for Newbies

10 Commandments for Newbies

by LadyMary03
I. THOU SHALT BE RELENTLESS IN YOUR SEARCH OF KNOWLEDGE …for there are many who are willing and eager to guide and assist you in your search
II. THOU SHALT NOT BE HAUGHTY OF MIND …for we all are still learning and growing. There is no shame in not knowing a right word or how [...]

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An Intimate Look at Ritual Pain

An Intimate Look at Ritual Pain

by Amanda Silvers
“A person can’t be creative and conformist at the same time,” J.A. Meyer, “Brick Wall”
The night is dark when we set out, with a cool silver moon the only illumination. I am blindfolded and bound as soon as we begin. I wonder where we are going, for one of the rules is that [...]

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