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by Kayla
This concept has sort of crawled under my skin in a few discussions i have had lately so i’m going to jump into the devil’s advocate role here.
Are submissives really selfless? i say no we are not. The Merriam Webster Dictionary defines selfless as: Having no concern for ones self.
From all the discussions and [...]

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1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Top and I from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
2. I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will [...]

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by Rick’s toy
So there isn’t any miscommunication, let it be said from the beginning of this journey into the darker recesses of my mind, I’m not a pain slut. I don’t get wet at the thought of being beaten. If the truth is told, that thought makes me cringe. I don’t like to hurt. [...]

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“I’m in charge!”
This is a realization that some submissives have from the beginning and that hits others like a thunderbolt.
The Dominant has Control, but the submissive chooses to be under it. The submissive chooses to kneel, and sets limits within which the Dominant controls what happens. In time, trust grows and the scope of that [...]

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Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive. This type of speech ranges from simple straight forward commands to language of affirmation and frequently language of [...]

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by Justin Medlin
I am sure that most everyone reading this knows what S.S.C. stands for……Safe, Sane and Consensual. Its catchy, easy to remember and it has been a worthwhile marketing slogan for the BDSM lifestyle no matter what your level of involvement. Over time though it has become less useful to the people actually [...]

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by Norische
Safe words, when you are new to the BDSM lifestyle you hear a lot of new terms, one term that always seems to cause a little confusion is the term “Safe word”.
A safe word is any word or phrase that is agreed upon by both the Dominant and the sub/slave as being an acceptable [...]

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