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Feminisim & Submission

Feminisim & Submission

by Toya
Writing an article on submission and feminism was a huge challenge to me. Until a few years ago I had never really come into contact with the feminist movement; for the most part the feminist movement passed me by. Not because I wasn’t interested in what they were trying to achieve and indeed did [...]

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Anger and BDSM: Part One - Dealing with your anger as a submissive

by Screamer
(Disclaimer: A rare thing for me. D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are [...]

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24/7 Slavery

24/7 Slavery

by Ricks toy
24/7. All day, every day. Is it possible to live any lifestyle to that degree? More to the point, is it possible to live *this* lifestyle that i’ve chosen for myself on a 24/7 basis?
i suppose before i can answer that, i ought to give you a little background information about myself and [...]

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On Being a Slut

On Being a Slut

by kaylee
‘Slut’ is a phrase that often has different connotations, depending on how we view ourselves, how the term is used, and how we as individuals define what a ’slut’ is. My personal definition is that the term ’slut’ means a woman who embraces her sexuality, and holds little inhibitions in that manner.
I don’t necessary [...]

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Frugal Romance 101

Frugal Romance 101

Holidays and special anniversaries are wonderful reminders for romance. However, they are also the most predictable. A small but meaningful gesture on an “ordinary day” often has more impact than a larger investment on an “expected day.”
One way to encourage spontaneous romance is with a Friendship Ball/Box. Find a nice small hollow ball or box. [...]

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