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by Yaldah Tovah, M.D.
“Discipline gives total freedom;
it allows you to go beyond your limitations,
to break through boundaries and reach the highest goal.
The path to discipline will not only save a person’s life,
it will also give it meaning. How?
By introducing him to deeper joys and deeper longings,
by creating a silence in which the whisper of the [...]

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by Jay Wiseman
Let me guess. You’re a woman, you’re heterosexual, and you keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of a powerful, masterful man having his way with you. Perhaps he tears off your clothes and takes you. Perhaps he throws you over his knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps he [...]

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Allow me the strength to answer questions I can’t fathom.
Allow me the spirit to know his needs.
Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts.
Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace.
Allow me the love to show Him myself.
Allow me the tenderness to comfort Him.
Allow me the light to show us the way.
Allow me the [...]

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by luna[KM]
Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I am strong willed, commanding and independent. I have a dominant personality. Nature, society and the way I was [...]

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by Ms Lyn
What do you mean when you offer to serve?
What do you mean when you offer to be of service?
What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?
Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some [...]

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by Screamer
(Disclaimer: D/s is fluid, and different for everyone. This essay may not work in your personal relationship, and that’s okay. Parts of it may work, some may not. That’s okay too. I can only write from my own experience, which is always what I do. ALWAYS, if you are in a dangerous situation, one [...]

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by CuisineNet
Serving Order
At a formal restaurant or banquet, food should be presented to guests in the following order: guest of honor, female guests, male guests, hostess, host. After the guest of honor, first the women, then the men, are served in one of two ways: (1) dishes can be presented to guests in the order [...]

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by Slave Dove
These dinners are what many would view as a “scene” but they are not play parties.
No one is available for physical “use” it is formal Old Guard Domination and submission at its gratifying best.
Although to make things easier I write in Male-Top / fem-sub terms, the dinner is pansexual.
Planning your Dinner:
I recommend the [...]

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by Norische
What is protocol?
Protocol - a series of rules and behaviors that are deemed appropriate and expected for certain circumstances.
In today’s BDSM society there is no set rules for protocol. Some portions of this community have a general guideline that they observe; however, even within these factions there is very little that is set in [...]

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by Norische
Now that the basics have been covered lets move on to the invitation, menu and serving of a proper Afternoon tea.
Invitations
Invitations should be sent 10 to 14 days in advance, this should ensure that your guests will have plenty of time to make arrangements and plan for such an event. The invitations should include [...]

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