Site Network: The Iron Gate Thinking Dominant BDSM is Love NEIPEX

Archive for submission

You are browsing the archives of submission.

Blind Faith

Blind Faith

by Mistress Steele
BLIND: To conceal or to put something forward for the purpose of misleading. Subterfuge. One who acts to the point of insensibility.
FAITH: To trust, give allegiance or loyalty to another. Fidelity to one’s promises. Or, a firm belief in something for which there is no proof. It can also mean to offer a [...]

Popularity: unranked [?]

The Power of Submission

by rarejewel
To understand the power of submission, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed.
True submission is something that comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, it goes [...]

Popularity: 29% [?]

Submissive Creed

1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Top and I from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
2. I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will [...]

Popularity: 14% [?]

Submission by Choice: How to Work Your Way Back to Yourself

by luna[KM]
Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I am strong willed, commanding and independent. I have a dominant personality. Nature, society and the way I was [...]

Popularity: 11% [?]

Serve, Service, Servitude?

by Ms Lyn
What do you mean when you offer to serve?
What do you mean when you offer to be of service?
What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?
Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some [...]

Popularity: 8% [?]

Rediscovering and Modernizing The Geisha : New Submissive Perspectives In Contemporary BDSM

by Pantheris
The geisha is a potential site for exploration and experimentation in the world of BDSM today. As the world undergoes a shrinkage, globalization allows cultural crossovers; this not only pervades into the economic world, it also diversifies sensual experience. Currently, the majority of “roles” that submissives play are of Western conception and development. Let [...]

Popularity: 9% [?]

Feminisim & Submission

Feminisim & Submission

by Toya
Writing an article on submission and feminism was a huge challenge to me. Until a few years ago I had never really come into contact with the feminist movement; for the most part the feminist movement passed me by. Not because I wasn’t interested in what they were trying to achieve and indeed did [...]

Popularity: 5% [?]

Confessions of a Control Whore

Confessions of a Control Whore

by Rick’s toy
So there isn’t any miscommunication, let it be said from the beginning of this journey into the darker recesses of my mind, I’m not a pain slut. I don’t get wet at the thought of being beaten. If the truth is told, that thought makes me cringe. I don’t like to hurt. [...]

Popularity: 7% [?]

Is It House Broke? Protocol Within Your Own Home

Is It House Broke? Protocol Within Your Own Home

by Norische
What is protocol?
Protocol - a series of rules and behaviors that are deemed appropriate and expected for certain circumstances.
In today’s BDSM society there is no set rules for protocol. Some portions of this community have a general guideline that they observe; however, even within these factions there is very little that is set in [...]

Popularity: 20% [?]

Sub Drop

Sub Drop

by Toya
When Master and I were still doing the long distance thing, one of the most important things I had to learn to cope with was sub drop. Master would come up for a weekend, we would have two or three days full of play and then he would leave. The next day was like [...]

Popularity: 15% [?]